My grandfather died seventy years ago this week. Obviously i never knew him and have only one small black and white photograph of him on my study wall. He’s standing in the backyard of the terraced house they lived in in Oldham. Lancashire. This is a poem I wrote about him a long time ago. My mother said he was gassed in WW1 and never recovered.
My Grandad
I look at the photograph.
He smiles,and silently
he tells me
his story…
In my backyard I stand,
Hands wrapped around a mug of tea.
Shirt sleeves, rolled back,
Reveal tattoos – slack muscles.
I grin.
All teeth.
Who cares that they’re more black
Than white.
Underneath
That’s my life;
That’s the grin I learned
When burned
By poison
Spreading
Like wild garlic.
That’s the grin I wear
When I look
But don’t see
The dark oil glistening,
Blistering, inside me.
When I hear, but don’t listen
To my lungs closing.
I posture,
Braces fastened for the photo,
Chest puffed out.
Nothing touches me –
Now.
Later I cough my guts up –
Chuck up.
I trod on corpses: dead horses,
Blown up in a field
Where grass had yielded
To strong yellow nashers.
And in the pastures
I shat myself.
But smelled no worse
Than my mate, Henry, next to me
Whose head grinned down from the parapet –
Ten yards away.
He has perfect, white teeth.
Much good they’ve done him,
Except for that last night at home
When the girl smiled back.
© Judith Barrow
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Heartbreaking, Judith. x
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Thanks Sue. Today seemed a good time to think of my granddad and his memories. I know Mum loved hi, Jx
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I have read a lot on the Somme for its centenary, but this, I think, brought it home more than most. x
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Thank you, Sue. I’ve just watched the piece again on the news ‘We’re Here Because…’ A wonderful idea by the artist- all those volunteers moving silently through the streets in WW1 uniforms and handing out a card with the name of a soldier who died. What a dreadful waste of a generation of young men.Jx
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A very poignant illustration of the way our young men were fed to the war machine.
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Perfect for the 100th year anniversary of the Battle of the Somme. Well done!
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I have just the one photo of my granddad, Darlene. I think we can so easily forget who we come from. Thank you for dropping by.
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I am so lucky that I knew both of my grandfathers (and great grandfathers). It is important to remember who we came from. Thankfully, you have the photo.
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Yes, you’re right, Darlene… on all counts. I also have a pencilled note that he sent to my mother when she signed up in WW2. So poignant.
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That’s so moving and powerful, Judith. Thanks for sharing it.
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Thank you, Mary.jx
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Riveting, Judith, and so tragic. What a powerful poem. I’m always moved to tears by the smiling photos of men (and women and children) whose lives and smiles and dreams were damaged by or lost to war. 😦
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Thank you, according to my mum, he was a gentle soul.Jx
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Such a moving poem, Judith. We owe so much to men like your grandad. Thank you for sharing it.
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Thank you, Jan. I must admit this weekend’s events on WW1 and the Somme have brought me to tears. See you on Monday.jx
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That’s a terrific poem, Judith! I only know my grandparents from the odd photo, too; I’ve only seen one of my paternal grandad, who died in 1931. I don’t even know what of. TB, I think. He was a Buckingham Palace guard, the one photo I’ve seen is him in his unform.
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Thanks Terry.I always wish I knew more about him. I don’t remember my paternal grandparents either. All I do know is that that side of the family came from Southern Ireland at the time of the potato famine.
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Really? Oh, if only one could know their story….
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I know. So much lost. I’ve been thinking about your grandfather as the guard at Buckingham Palace. I bet they have records somewhere. Now… that could be a story!
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I have great memories of my maternal grandad – especially how he use to hoik me on his shoulders and walk us for miles along the banks of the river Croal in Bolton. Happy times! Love the poem – very savage but compelling.
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Thank you Steve, I appreciate you dropping by. And for the word ‘hoik’ – ages since I heard that – now finding a place to put it into my WIP.
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To ‘chuck something up on’t shoulder’ or, probably, any other form of snatch and raise action, I shouldn’t wonder! I’m not sure if it was specifically old Lancashire, but it was certainly used a lot, back then…
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I absolutely LOVED this poem, Judith! Through the honesty of your words, I was able to ‘feel’ the presence of the man! Such a beautiful piece x
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Coming from you Lynn, I am overwhelmed – couldn’t have had a greater compliment. Thank you. JXX
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My maternal grandfather was in the Somme and also was gassed. He managed to live a few decades more, if you call that living. He had to take a lot of pills and such and could not go anywhere without an oxygen tank which was not so portable in those days. My other grandfather picked up TB while in the war and died a few years later and like you, all I have of him is a photo. Léa
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Hi Lea, Thank you so much. My granddad was gassed and suffered such a lot, my mother said. He ws seventeen when he went to the Somme as a Lancashire Pals. He died in the fities. I so appreciate your re blog.Jx
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Hi Judith, my grandfather was young when he was there but I’m not sure how young. He was in the 72 Seaforth Highlanders and I have a very old photo of him and one of his brothers in their kilts. Grandpa had the gas exposure and lived up to his sixtieth birthday but I wouldn’t call it living. When he was still able to play, he played the pipes. Thank you for sharing a wonderful post. lf
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And thank you for dropping by and sharing your memories, Lea.Jx
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Thank you so much.Jx
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Powerful, poignant, and heartbreaking Judith,. xo ❤
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Thank you, Debby.Jx
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Manyn thanks.Jx
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