The Blurb:
“I have been a great critic of myself for most of my life, and I was darned good at it, deflating my own ego without the help of anyone else.”
What do our shopping habits, high-heeled shoes, and big hair have to do with how we perceive ourselves? Do the slights we endured when we were young affect how we choose our relationships now?
D.G. takes us on a journey, unlocking the hurts of the past by identifying situations that hindered her own self-esteem. Her anecdotes and confessions demonstrate how the hurtful events in our lives linger and set the tone for how we value our own self-worth.
Words We Carry is a raw, personal accounting of how the author overcame the demons of low self-esteem with the determination to learn to love herself.
My Review:
Ever had that feeling of ‘not being quite good enough’,of ‘never fitting in’, of ‘always being on the outside’? Then please read this book.Words We Carry carries (excuse the pun) words that can hit home with a sudden realisation of why we may sometimes feel that way. I’m not saying that everyone does. And if you don’t then you’re very lucky. But, as far as I’m concerned I shall be grateful to this author forever. D.G.Kaye lays her soul bare and, by doing so, allows the reader to sit back and think; to understand that if anyone’s opinion touches a nerve, however well meant, however innocently said, there could be a reason from the past.
Reading this book gave me a reinforcement of the self-knowledge I knew was in me but… is…was my habit to dismiss because, long ago, that confidence was diminished. I’ll say no more on that. I just wanted to stress how invaluable reading Words We Carry was, for me.
The author’s honesty about her own earlier life; her own feelings of being inadequate, of struggling with self-esteem, allows the reader to do the same. Her empathy and compassion shine throughout the text.
There is no magic wand to wave away past hurts but D.G. Kaye shows how she came to terms with herself and how she moved forward. Her journey helped me to re-evaluate my own life. If the first sentence of my review made you stop and think then I urge you to consider finding a copy of Words We Carry. I thoroughly recommend it.
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Great review, Judith. I like books that are not only entertaining but opportunities for reflection. 🙂
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Thank you, Diana. It’s a book that certainly got me thinking.Jx
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Another terrific review for D.G. Kaye’s memoir The Words We Carry.. this time by Judith Barrow .. please head over to Judith’s post to leave your feedback there and to share..
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Thank you for dropping by,Sally, and for… as always… your lovely introduction.Jx
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❤ Sal. xoxo
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Sold to the gentleman with the dog. Just downloaded it!
Love to you both!
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Aw, thank you, Christoph – glad my review helped. This book caused me to reflect a lot on my childhood and younger life. Debby is one insightful lady. Jx
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You are too kind my friend. I do hope you enjoy. ❤
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What an excellent review! I need to get this book… Thanks for the reminder, Judith! Will catch up with you later, Debby. 😊
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Thanks, Kev, I’m glad I got the review right . It’s an excellent book that makes you think hard… and, in the end, smile. jx
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Thanks as always Kev. I hope it will be an inspiring read for both you and Pat. ❤
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I’m sure it will be. 😊
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Loved this review, Judith. You give an excellent idea of the contents of Debby’s book and how it can affect the reader by giving yourself as an example. Well done. 🙂 — Suzanne
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Thank you so much, Suzanne. I do have to say Debby’s book helped me to understand why I have reacted to certain situations in the past. Jx
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Thanks Suzanne. Isn’t Judith just lovely. ❤
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You’re most welcome, Debby. Yes, she is lovely. 🙂 — Suzanne
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Love Debby and the words she puts to paper. This is in my TBR pile already. I am looking forward to reading it.
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It’s a book that gives such a belief that we can leave past troubles where they belong… in the past.x
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Lol Michelle, don’t remind me about the ‘pile’. Thanks so much for your kind words and for already having this book. ❤
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We all have one. Hugs, my friend.
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Lol ❤
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Omg, I’m overwhelmed by your most beautiful review of my book Judith, and honoured that you shared it on your page(s). It means so much to me because if you got that much from it, it makes me feel that so many others will take the same inspiration and learn that the crappy stuff from our past doesn’t have to follow us. Thank you again. xoxo ❤
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Debby, finding you and your book has given me so much. I read it through twice…it is so inspirational. And glad many others think the same. Thank you! Jxx
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Wow Judith, you brought tears to my eyes. What a feeling to know that you got so much from my words of experience. And to think you read it twice! I’m just over the moon and reblogging your review tomorrow. A million thank you’s! xo ❤
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Jx ❤
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Sounds extraordinary – and how true it is that we carry words of criticism all our lives, while forgetting so easily about words of praise.
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Toni, you are so right. I think if praise is foremost when young, we are able to deal with criticism as we get older.I think it all starts with self-confidence, which is or is not gained in childhood. Thank you for dropping by.Jx
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Thank you Toni. It’s the truth. 🙂
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Fantastic review Judith
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Thank you so much, Adele.Jx
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Thanks Adele. ❤
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Thanks for the review, Judith. I have several of Debby’s books in my list to be read and this one sounds like a must. 🙂
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It is, Olga. I found it so useful and a good empathetic read. Hope you are well. Will we see you at Christoph’s Christmas book fair? Jx
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Thanks Olga. Perhaps we’ll eventually get to one another’s books on our bursting TBR’s lol. xo
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Ah, thank you so much., Debby.x
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